Are you someone who has always fantasized about bondage but never really tried your hands at it? The thing with bondage sex is that what you watch in porn is not always realistic, but you can get a similar experience by hiring professional escorts.
Before we get into the positions you can try with the escort you hire, let’s understand the fundamentals of bondage.
Things you need to know about bondage
Before you get started, it’s important to set some ground rules with the escort regarding what you want and things you are not comfortable with. You also need to choose a safe word that both of you can use in case you start feeling uncomfortable mid-session. The safe word suggests that a boundary was crossed and that they need to stop. If you are a novice, you should start with simpler things to get used to the momentum.
Bear in mind that bondage sessions can also help you figure out your sexual preference. Whether you are a Dom, Sub, or a bit of both, you can indulge in your fantasies freely with no one to judge you.
Now that you have an idea, here are some positions you can try the next time you hire an escort at Ladys.one.
Positions to try with the escort
- Spooning bondage: This position is also often referred to as the rag doll position. In this position, the arms of the little spoon are bound together in front of them. You can even blindfold the partner for added pleasure.
- Handcuffed to the bed: In this position, the partner is handcuffed to the headboard of the bed with rope. With this form of bondage, you can try on many positions. Maybe try using a vibrator on the escort and watching her surrender to you.
- Hogtie: In this form, both the wrists and the angles are tied together at a single point.
- Ball tie: the method is pretty standard, in which the partner’s arms and knees are tucked together into the chest. It almost resembles a fetal position.
- Frogtie: To get into this position, you need to tie the escort’s ankle to her thighs. Proceed by tying her arms behind her back. This also provides easy access to the escort’s clitoris for penetration or cunnilingus.
- Cowgirl: In this position, the submissive partner’s arms are outstretched, and the legs are apart. It’s the dominant person who gets on top of them.
- Chair bondage: In this position, you can tie the legs of the submissive partner to the chair legs and tie her arms behind the back of the chair. With this position, the dominant person can ride or give oral sex to the other partner.
- Standing bondage: To get in this position, you can tie the hands of the escorts to a ceiling or wall. The legs can be spread apart using a spreader bar that is attached to the escort’s legs with shackles. This position will allow you to penetrate the escort from behind. This is also a good position for those who are into pegging.
- Rear entry bondage: Unlike standing bondage, this position requires you to bend over the escort and tie her wrists to her ankles. You can even use the spreader bar to spread her legs apart, like in standing bondage. This position is also recommended for those who like to spank.
- Shibari: The term originates from a Japanese word that means decorative tying. This form of bondage is more like ‘Art’ in itself. The process of Japanese rope tying is very complex and requires years of practice. If you want to perform this particular bondage position, you need to hire an escort who knows the art.
Takeaway:
Do you fancy any specific position from the above list? If yes, make sure to get in touch with escorts to get your desires fulfilled. Not all escorts may be comfortable performing every position, so it’s advised to communicate with them before the booking.
There’s a lot more to bondage than is covered in the blog. Booking regular sessions with escorts will help you learn the ropes of bondage, and in no time you will also become a pro at it.